Maioush

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To all the nice guys left

To every guy that’s said, “You’re beautiful.”
To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town (or across the state) to see her.
To every guy that gives flowers and a card when she is sick.
To every guy who has given her flowers just because.
To every guy that said he would die for her.
To every guy that really would.
To every guy that did what she wanted to do.
To every guy that cried in front of her.
To every guy that she cried in front of.
To every guy that holds hands with her.
To every guy that kisses her with meaning.
To every guy that hugs her when she’s sad.
To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all.
To every guy who would give their jacket up for her.
To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe.
To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes
To every guy that would give his seat up.
To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what.
To every guy who told his secrets to her.
To every guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath.
To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one.
To every guy that believed in her dreams.
To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them.
To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams.
To every guy that walked her to her car.
To every guy that gave his heart.
To every guy who prays that she is happy even if you are not with her.

…This is for you…

Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore… And because of this, there are not many left out there…

That’s all from where I sit.

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17 Responses

  1. secratea says:

    “Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore… And because of this, there are not many left out there…”… So Maioush, In other words you are saying??: “Because there aren’t many girls who appreciate nice guys anymore, there aren’t many of that kind (aka “nice guys”) left out there??

    So this is a cause effect type of statement… Guys are no longer nice because many girls don’t appreciate them to start with??
    Sorry for repeating the same sentence in different way, but my point is: Maioush, are you sure that is why THERE ARE NO LONGER NICE GUYS OUT THERE?

    Well, going through your list over and over, I don’t think most of the point are realistic (I will list them at the end of this comment). Also, it is not fair to load a single guy with all those none realistic actions, and expect him even to have or act upon 7 of them all. Some of them might happen once, like at the beginning of the relationship, but mostly, these are not actions that normally happen or a frequent basis.. even if the time span is years!

    Ok, i will classify your statements accoriding to how i se them happening:
    One time action (mostly happening at the beginning of the relationship):
    To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town (or across the state) to see her.
    To every guy that did what she wanted to do.
    To every guy that cried in front of her.
    To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes

    An action that can happen frequently.. or let me say, from time to time:
    To every guy that’s said, “You’re beautiful.”
    To every guy that gives flowers and a card when she is sick.
    To every guy that holds hands with her.
    To every guy that kisses her with meaning.
    To every guy that hugs her when she’s sad.

    Unrealistic actions:
    To every guy who has given her flowers just because.(there is no just ecause.. it is because HE LOVES HER 😉 )
    To every guy that said he would die for her.
    To every guy that really would.
    To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what.
    To every guy who told his secrets to her.
    To every guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath.
    To every guy that believed in her dreams.
    To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them.
    To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams.
    To every guy that walked her to her car.
    To every guy that gave his heart.
    To every guy who prays that she is happy even if you are not with her. ( if they aren’t together as a couple, he will be praying for another girl for sure.. maybe his girlfriend, fiance, or wife)

    Okay I left some out, and i misplaced one or two.. But the thing that annoyed me soooo much is whether male or female, you are loading the “nice” person with too much unrealistic actions.. Being realistic is what is nice about relationships ;D
    that is my point.

  2. Qabbani says:

    hmmmm, i don’t see any thing Jdeed in this list , or i don’t know

    according to ur list am a nice guy 😀 …

  3. Isam says:

    i disagree with secratea here … these things happen … and a lot of times guys would like to do them … but as Mai said … girls dont appreciate it and sometimes use it against the guy …

    blv me … i’ve done all those realistic actions … and i know many people who did too … the funny thing is … the guys who didnt do them are the guys who are still with the same girls and didnt break up …

    lovely post mai …

  4. Isam says:

    TYPO : i’ve done all those UNREALISTIC actions

    sorry

  5. secratea says:

    Your still alive to write this comment Islam.. and no, I completely disagree that guys are reacting to the lack of “nice” girls out there.. and to tell you the truth, if some are… they have BIG problems! ya3niii akeed dumped by a girl a couple of times, to live their life as a means of “reaction”… BIG PROBLEM walla!

  6. Shaden says:

    I really doubt that the reason is that not many girls appreciate it. a nice guy is a nice guy and a jerk is a jerk.

  7. Jumana says:

    Maiuosheh, honey, dreams are legal 🙂

  8. Maioush says:

    Secratea:
    WOW girl!! Thank you for taking the time to write this comment 🙂
    Yes Secratea, not many girls appreciate nice guys, and there is not much left, I know a lot of guys SCARED and other HATE and don’t trust girls cuz they got hurt, let’s face it, guys are much simpler that us girls, we are the ones hard to please, as for them, I’m afraid that’s not the case,
    Well, here is the deal I’m totally convinced that none of the points mentioned are unrealistic (I either saw it, heard about it, or lived it myself). They all happened (at least once) and this is simply to every and single guy who did any of those things above, I’m not dreaming, I’m not saying that there is someone who actually do all of that, a guy who calls you to make sure you ok is nice :), when you don’t appreciate it, he won’t do it next time.. as simple as that.

    Qabbani:
    So you did one or more of these things?? Hmmm, ashok 🙂

    Isam:
    Now take it easy on the girls Isam 🙂 .. yes I agree we are complicated, bs ento Kaman elkom 3amayel, that’s why I said there is not much left out there, I’m hoping that appreciation is the key, but if not, allah y3eenkom ma3naha 🙂

    Secratea:
    As much as there is nice girls around, there are the mean one and those are the ones who screws up the whole thing, as a conclusion the nice guys becomes mean too.

    Qwaider:
    Yeah right!! You wish 😀

    Shaden:
    True, but don’t deny he fact that luck plays a huge part of this, you know something, some of the jerks around used to be the nicest people you can ever imagine, until they got hurt by some girl, and btw, same case applies on girl too, they stop appreciating the nice ones cuz they met a jerk before…

    Jumana:
    It’s not a deam!! Walahi there are people like that, I know some of them 🙂 .. now they don’t do ALL what I said, but they try 🙂

  9. Maher says:

    yaaaaa bayeee!! jad i swear i do everything on the list..except the crying thing! ‘7ososan ba7keeha dayman to check eza weslat home!

    bravo 3aleeek Maher jad!! sometimes beje 3abale aktob book 3anne LoL ( meeen be7ke 3annak mesh motawade3 lol)

    ——-

    Maioush, you know what? i dont believe good guys dont exists. i believe good girls doesnt exists!

  10. Maioush says:

    walak Maher!! now easy there, what do u mean good girls don’t exist?? don’t push it man, i was nice and i wrote something nice about guys, so be nice and say that they do!

  11. Maioush..wallah good and nice girls do appreciate all these things and even smaller and more simple gestures…

    bas suret shayeftelek enu bhal denyeh..good girls end up with bad guys….and nice, awesome guys hook up with bad namrooden girls! 😦
    heik sayra el majority of cases

    mishan heik i’m seeing amazing girls and 3an jad wallah i’m not exaggerating..i have so many adorable friends and all of them are singles..mu la2yen 2eli y2ader..lol 🙂

  12. Maher says:

    zay ma 7akeet be hadeek el post. lazem aderbale be my comments hoon! balash ma et3asbe 3alay!

    anyway, i have this boring lecture, in this lecture basra7 be kol eshe..sometimes i think i am David Beckham or i am Michael Jackson(not interested in boys, but interested in dancing looool)

    today i gave a thought to what you said in this post.. and you know what? Good guys dont exist? Yes i agree! Good Girls Dont exits? i also agree! everyone wants his/her Masla7a!!
    everything is messed up in this world. no one cares about the other person!

  13. Jumana says:

    it is refreshing to know

  14. Qabbani says:

    well, shoki ya5ti ,

    I know MANY guys do things in ur list , i don’t know why u see it something rare ,

    do u know there’s things up i do it with JUST A FRIEND and some of them i met like days ago !!!

  15. Mnoosh says:

    fe shak 😀

    how r u sweets?

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